The term Adopted is an adjective which means legally taken
by another to be looking after by him or her. So which mean Adopted sister is
the one whom you adopt or adopt by a sister as a brother to be look and help
each other as their own sister or brother. But then this world is full of chaos
and negative thinker even the one who adopt other to be his/her brother or
sister. Somebody rightly quoted that negative people think negative. A story
goes ……
It was in 2010, Wangchukla was a 2nd year student
of ILCS Semtokha popularly known as Rigzhung Lobdra. Wangchukla was good boy
somehow in helping other but never interested in love affairs and adopting. He
already got an adopted sister when he was in class ten. He was good student and
always used to top the class. So may be that year was bad luck or good luck by
chance for him. After a week new comers’ student who joined Rigzhung he found
out there was one girl who always used to observe him. Wangchukla used to sit
on the bottom line with Prayer Captain while praying and he discovered that,
that girl very much interested in prayer following him each and every step of
the prayer, how I clap my hand and pronounce mantra. He never knows who she was
and he never gave damn to ask who she was.
One fine morning, he was walking to his class and was
stopped by the sound Ata. When he turned he found out that girl with her friend
waiting for me. He told her if any problem. Yes she told him she always clap
double while praying and want to know why was that and he was made to taught
some mantra pronunciation. This was the first time they met and talked. From that
day she always used to smile to him when they met on the way and prayer. Day passed
by one night Wangchukla got a called from new number and it was her asking
doubt of Tibetan Grammar text. He wondered as he didn’t give his number to her
but it was his friend they gave to her as she was asking. He wrote it in a piece
of paper about her doubt on grammar and he gave it to her the next day.
Day by day they became frank and Wangchukla helped her in
every possible way.Wangchukla discovered she was having loose character, using
drugs, drinking and smoking but wangchukla asked her problem and helped her to
solve and she became good girl studying following wangchuklas advice. Then it
was midterm break she went home for vacation and talked with her parent that
Wangchukla helped her a lot.
It was in September wangchukla was made to receive that
girls parent phones which they told him it was good you are helping our daughter
and we are happy. We parents want you to adopt you as her brother. On that day
wangchukla reluctantly became adopted brother of that girl. Ya wangchukla was
good boy. He used to take care of her as his own sister and teach her a lot
keeping his studies aside. He even beat his adopted sister for involving in
nonsense things.
One day wangchukla got sms from adopted sister which read, ‘brother
my friend says, you love me lol. Is it true’? He answered her ‘no, it isn’t true. Those people
are jealous of us and trying to defame us, just do not listen to them. Everything
will be fine Sister’. He knows her sister was innocent and young not knowing
what is wrong or right. She passes out class 12 and I was even called to their
home. Till her result were declared wangchukla used to get lots of call from
her and her parent but after declaration of result he never get any call from
them. Anyway wangchukla kept their relation as it is accepting every fault.
So their relation last till 2012 when wangchukla was upset
with his sister involving in nonsense things. Her father told him to tell him
if she does nonsense thing and he do inform him but Alas! God ////////??????. She
told her father and mother that he was not adopted brother but was a boyfriend
to her. He loved me very much and wants to marry me, that is why he is helping
her a lot. So Wangchukla got good scolding her parents but he was not wrong. Although
he tried to explain but they were not listening believing on what their
daughter says. Wangchukla thereafter was totally depressed but with a smile he
said all is well, thank god. Now they are totally disconnected. Wangchukla
called them but not receiving and they never call back. It is almost a year
now.
So by analyzing above story, my question here is…..
1)
There should not be a love between brother and
sister.
2)
Love is only between lovers and not to others.
3)
How do you define the term love
4)
Is wangchukla or that girl is right
5)
Do our parent should believe in whatever their
son or daughter told them.
6)
There should not be any problem between Adopted
brother and sister.
Let me know your opinion here ……….la
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